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White broads...if you are so superior to black women when comes to beauty WHY? do you feel the need to come on here and talk sh*t about black women ALL ******* day. (don't you all have jobs every time I come on here I see the same white bitches). Now personally I think mixed people have the best features but you don't see me coming here tearing down black girls all damn day. If you're so superior and high and mighty if you're SO beautiful and perfect looking WHY do you continue to get off your "pedestal" (that your white men put you on) and bash black women.. huh shouldn't they be too beneath you... huh hoes. UGH at least black females keep it real and white hoes are too hypocritical omg. | | I appreciate your anger on my behalf as a Black women. You have to understand that everything is NOT how it appears to be. This is the internet, you never know who maybe behind the mask. Most white women I know do not bash black women. They actually want to get to know us better. I value my white female friends as much as my black female friends. As far as beauty is concerned not one race has hit the jackpot on having the best looks in my opinion. Its ALL about preferences. For white women who do feel superior, well, they really have no right to it and they are probably the only ones, themselves, who think this way. I can appreciate another woman's beauty and by me stating this, automatically, that is what makes me superior. I believe everyone should embrace their looks and find their own beauty mesmerizing. | Why do black men perfer white women over black women? Why is it that black famous men like o;j simpson and tiger woods and others have wife wifes and girlfriends,when they can have their pick of beauiful smart black women?Is it because white women will take the s-h-i-t they hand out,and black women won't? I see these white women on the maurey show on t.v with black boyfriends or husbands,that cheat on them and abuse them and they still stay with them.Do they have a death wish these white women?Look what happened to Nicole Brown o.j's wife. Women may be smart but they have no ******* common sense period! | cbmaclean and you foolish are indeed acting foolish with this question. Come on! This is silly. If they are on the Maury show then they already have problems, right? The Maury show is not the place to take a sample of mixed raced relationships, nor is the Jerry Springer the show to take a sample on any relationship or way of liffe!! These shows are for entertainment and the only people they can get come on, or who they even want to come on is people who are poor and were not taught how to behave of live life respectfully. Many of these poor folks(by poor, I don't mean money wise) are simply uneducated, damaged individuals who grew up in seriously dysfunctional homes. You just can not take those who appear on these types of shows as a representitive of any race or sex. The behaviors of these folks is sad, tragic, and not to be made fun of as the pain if very real.
Now, back to this black men prefer white women. I have read many studies regarding this. Studies of black men who try to explain why they prefer while women over black. Though why limit yourself to one type of person is beyound me as there are many many wonderful people of all races. These black men state that black women attempt to walk all over them and take away their manhood. That many black women come on way too strong and end up acting like men. This turns them off so they say. These men state they don't like living in constant strife and this is what they found when they dated or had relationships with black women.
Regardless, this is about racism this question. I do not support racism in any shape of form. If somebody falls in love with a person, their race should be the last thing considered. Love, real love trancends race and color. I suggest you begin taking your own inventory and stop looking for reasons to hate others. Life is about growth, learning to accept others is growth. Hate is the opposite of growth, it sucks a persons life blood and stunts any possible growth of the spirit.
Focus on your own personal and spirtual growth and let the anger over what you perceive as an injustice fade away. Nothing in this life is fair, and we can't change anybody but ourselves. If we focus on what is really important, which in my opinion is finding an ability to accept others even when we don't agree with them, finding what it is which satisfys our own spirits and allowing ourselves to forgive transgressions is the way towards real happiness and peace. When we forgive we forgive for ourselves not the one we are forgiving. When we keep anger and hatred alive we are only hurting ourselves not the one we are angry against nor the one we hate. Our anger and hate has little if any impact on those it is directed towards which leads it to turning inwards, which poisons and consumes our happiness and lives.
I am sure there are those who allow themselves to be treated poorly regardless of the color of their partner who is dishing out the abuse. I know for a fact our batterd women's shelters are full of women of all colors with husbands of all colors, as I have worked in these institutions. I also know that drug and alcohol addiction leads to abuse and those addicted are from all walks of life, without regard to race, color, creed, religion, age, sex, socio-ecconomical situation. We all are affected by abuse in this nation, not just the abused and the abusers.
I also know there are many loving inter-racial marriages in which both partners treat each other with great respect, honor and love. If we come from a dysfunctional background we tend to become dysfunctional. However, it is up to each as an adult to choose to carry on the cycle of dysfunction or to seek out a different path for themselves and their guyren, thus breaking that cycle. It may take a few generations to completely break the cycle but it IS a person choice each adult makes on his/her own. I strongly suggest we, as humans, seek what is kind, caring, non-judging and beautiful in life rather than that which is ugly and hateful.
Bless you for your attempt to bring forth an issue so charged as this. I sincerelly hope you will be able to see the error of this statement you have made, see how racist it truly is, how unfair to judge all by the actions of a few, and work dillegently to learn the truth and become less consummed with anger and hurt over what you perceive as an injustice. I truly wish you happiness and a wonderfull husband who you can honor, respect and find an abiding love with, regardless of his race. | Why does it seem like there's so much hatred and, Ill opinions towards Black women on YA's? For example: Earlier today someone asked a question what country likes Black women the most. I know it was a silly question but, one of the answers to the question was an insulting remark towards Black women in general. The answer read: "Not too many people are attracted to Black women. What's up with the random Black spots on their bodies? makes me ******* sick it does."
Not only did that person failed to answer the question asked but, the extra remarks insulting Black women was uncalled for and, very harsh in a not so vulgar way.
Anyways, that was just one crude remark I heard on here out of many that was very insulting not only to Black women but, to us guys who are attracted to them. | It's not just seclusive to Y/A. I just can't figure it out. Everyone who doesn't like us, love the features, they would just rather have them on another woman of a different color. Angelina's lips for example.
But think of Beyonce's derriere, Tina Turner's legs, and Halle Berry's smooth tan color that stays all year round without any help. And maybe they would change their mind and maybe not? I guess with Oprah they would want their woman to be her and have her money. But could she be, for them, once again a woman of a different color. Amazing isn't it? | Black Women: Sex in the Shower, yes or no? So this is another random question. My best friend and I (both black) were talking about this movie Something New with an interracial couple in it and how the white guy asked if the black girl had hair underneath her weave...yeah that scene kills me. Anyway my roommate (also black) came in and started talking about how she had sex in the shower with this guy and how she was pissed after because she couldnt wear a shower cap and her hair got wet. i dont know where the hell it came from but it started this long drawn out discussion in which my best friend pretty much said sex in the shower is an absolute no to begin with but if it did happen she would wear a shower cap. shes ******* crazy. thats like biggest turn off ever lol
so now i have this disturbing vision of a black girl with a shower cap on having sex with some guy. its a mess.
being one myself, i know how a lot of black women are about our hair. So. Would you have sex in the shower, yes or no? If not would it have anything to do with not getting your hair wet? This is a dumb question i know... : \ | Sure. I might be wearing a shower cap though. If he is with a black woman he needs to understand how important our hair styles are. I spent a lot of $$ and time on that. Lol Of course that was when I was relaxed. One of the best things of not being relaxed or getting presses is that I am not afraid of water/rain anymore. It can make my hair frizz and ruin a twist out sure but then I get a righteous afro. I mean when you are stressing about not having fun becuase you might mess up your hair, something is very very wrong.
I mean I wear a sleep cap to bed still and take time to braid hair down and if that is a turn off, he shouldn't be with a black woman. If I sleep on loose napptural hair I willl end up with a big ball of tangles in the morning. Now THAT is not sexy. So my answer is: sex in the shower on special occasions only and even then he should accept a shower cap might be part of the bargain for some women. Honestly that's kind of dangerous and uncomfortable anyway. What's wrong with a comfy bed? :-)
Also I like in that movie how he encouraged her to take out the weave and just go natural. | Why don't white boys like black women? I always see skinny white blonde bitches with black men but i had never seen a white man with a black women why the hell not I been trying to get me a skinny white boy for sometime now and all those are racist mother *******.one of babys daddies are half white and it i tell u what honey he's good in bed and hsi dick is ******* **** like a ******* donkie on ******* bitching *** *****.so why all white boys be racist and not want no big loving>? | | You cuss way too much & come across as very stereotypical. That could be your problem because its not very attractive and seems uneducated and low class. I'm a Black girl and I've been asked out by White guys and had many liked me. I think personality is really important, and with Black women we have terrible stereotypes working against us. That makes some guys weary of approaching one of us. However, if she is nice and cute, then I don't think her race makes a difference. | Black men hate to see Black women in interracial relationships, why? I MEAN REALLY. I have never seen such hypocrites in my life. For instance, Im Black and my bf is white and when we go out, Black men give him the death stare. Like, I dont say anything when they date the white girs. So why hate on me? I mean, one I really dont date Black men because the ones I have been around are very cocky for no reason. Tyson Beckford has a right to be cocky, Lil wayne, not so much. Its like the lil wayne types, really dumb and really ghetto, that I dont like. But I dont hate on them though, I let them do them, so dont ******* hate on me. I have dated Black men in the past, like in high school and alot of them come up to me still while Im in college. It came to the point where I was tired of hearing "you're pretty for a dark skin girl", which is PREJUDICE. Im using their phrase now, I JUST DONT PERFER black guys. My dad is black, and I have 5 black brothers, whom I love to death. I just REFUSE TO BE DISRESPECTED! | Well, we already know that black women who date white guys will ALWAYS get crap from black guys (I've explained it in one of my posts and I'm not getting into it again).
The "Lil Wayne, skinny @ss punks" are usually worse. They're only puttin' up a front thinking "they're all that" because they ain't got nuthin' to show for LOL Ignore them.
Still, don't hate on your own race because you see so many of them who are not worth knowing. There ARE black men who have a high, self-esteem and won't disrespect you. They may be rare (just like other races), but they are out there and you just gotta look for them :) | Black women, do you ever get annoyed when they ask questions about your haiir? hmm. im 50/50. sometimes im cool other times im like "why are you so ******* stupid?" i get it a lot though because i dont have a relaxer and i dont straighten my hair. a lot of my friends love it but some people ask weird questions. like IM the weird one for not straightening my hair! im like if anything you should ask the girls rockin the weave more questions. im just loving what my ancestors gave me.
some white people actually think we are born with straight hair! ok no. those are the really dumb white people that you rarely come across. anyway i was in my friends dorm room (shes black) with my best friend from back home who goes to school in new york as well (also black.) okay so we are all black lol well the girl had a roommate who was white and she was listening to our conversation. we talk aout hair frequently and this day was no different from any other. then she interrupted and i think we all mugged her at once haha. she was asking all these questions about our hair and how we straighten it, how often do we wash it, and does it hurt to get weave (the first black girl i mentioned has a weave). idk. it was one of those days where i just got really annoyed by it. then she asked if she could touch our hair to feel how different natural, relaxed, and weaved in hair feels. i think we laughed our asses off. we let her feel it but then i was like "ok i feel like a damn dog. get off my head." she was like trying to massage my head or something. weird.
god i hope she never has black guys...
so do you guys understand my frustration? am i alone ladies? :( | BLACK PEOPLE HAVE TIGHTLY COILED HAIR. ITS NOT RIGHT FOR THEM TO STRAIGHTEN THEIR HAIR. NOT RIGHT.
ASIANS AND WHITE PEOPLE CAN DO IT BECAUSE THEY HAVE STRAIGHT HAIR AND THEY SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MAKE IT STRAIGHTER.
IT SHOULD BE A CRIME FOR BLACK GIRLS TO STRAIGHTEN THEIR HAIR. BE PROUD OF THAT PUBIC HAIR ON YOUR HAIR. IT LOOKS LIKE MY PUBES!!! | Why are white dudes so insecure when girls find black/mixed dudes attractive?e.g Drake/Will Smith? I have heard this **** far too often, it annoys the **** out of me............
The b**ch part about it is that, they do it behind the screen and ask on an online discussion forum. such as " Why girls find Drake/Will Smith Sexy?"
And the truth is, what they really wanted to ask is that why do some white girls find some black men attractive? what the **** man? why is that only white guys get upset about this issue? I don't see many asian/brown guys have issues against black dudes ******* their women!
My only advise to white dudes is Sob on it, just ******* cry......whoops sorry but some white girls are ******* black dudes.......and there really is nothing you can do about that. | Cus mixed or black are more sexier,,, and no offense but white men are um to soft and easy to step over..... i personally dont want a guy that i can control cus i dont feel proteccted and it gets boring
and besides once you go black u never go back :P | A question for Black men.? I was at the grocery store today, and noticed something.
It was full of black women. Every one of them had a guy(or more).
Not a single one of them was wearing a wedding band. Not one.
I just think it's kind of ironic that damn near 80 percent of black women (in my area)have guys, yet damn near 80 percent of black men (in my area) are not married. Go figure. I really wouldn't give a damn, but it pisses me off that I'm unusual(30 year old black woman, never married, no ******* guys.) My question is: Do black men ever seriously contemplate marriage? Or are they happier going from woman to woman knocking everybody up? It's a harsh question, I know; but I'm curious. For the record, I don't hate black men, but I won't date anyone with guys, and that pretty much cancels them out. | | Why do you not date men with guys? Are you too self-centered to "share" a man with his guyren? You may be passing up a good man by making this choice. Secondly, not every black woman wants to be married either. Their are plenty of women of all races that are choosing to raise a guy alone. Lastly, it is too bad that you haven't had a good experience with black men, but that is no reason to assume that black men don't want to be in committed relationships. They have to find a woman who is worth spending the rest of their lives with. | I HATE black people, anyone know why? I just don't understand it, it's not about the race i could care less about the skin's ******* color, but once i see those damn fat *** black woman with their ******* attitude i just ******* can't take it, and their ******* nasty discusting hairstyle with their ******* weaves, just ******* discusting, and i also hate the way they speak the english language, the utter the words like they're ******* speaking out of their ***! | | for one thing you got to love yourself before you can love anyone else. let that marinate on your lil mind for a minute boo. |
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