How was your first time gay experience? I would like to have mine soon but I am also very nervous. So I thought that maybe I could learn something from the first time sex experience of other gay guys. I am also a bit afraid because I heard those stories that it hurts the first time and so on,... It would be great if the first time turns out to be a fantastic experience. How to do it? |
Jason it depends on the dude that your with if he takes it easy and slow and allows you to enjoy the experiance it could be good. or a guy that is rough and causes you pain could totally ruin it for you.
sean |
First time gay experience? What would a first time gay experience be like? If a guy sees another guy and likes him, what would happen the first time? Can gay guys be gentle? I always feel like gays want it rough, but is there some way that a first gay experience could be slow and gentle? What if you started doing it and didn't really want to go "all the way"? Would the guy get really angry? If you are pretty sure a guy is gay, how do you actually approach him? And how do you "make a move"? Do you touch him? Do you kiss him? Do you grab him? Confused... |
It's all like str8 people. You have a completely wrong idea of gay relationships.
What would happen? Whatever both of them want to happen... Of course guys ARE gentle.
And if you're thinking anal sex: a lot of gay couples don't like anal sex, and if you practice it rough you're probably get some serious conditions, like fissures, etc. So usually it is practiced slowly and gently, and not rough as you imagine.
If you're with another person, they should respect each other, so if one of them doesn't want to continue, the other has the obligation to stop and understand it.
In my case, everything happens naturally and if something doesn't feel good/pleasurable, then i won't do it.
If you're not sure of a guy's sexual orientation, there's a lot of tricks we could use to figure it out, but i won't tell you because you'd be paranoid thinking every guy is interested in you. |
How was it the first time gay experience? Share your first time don't go to much into detail just your feelings, where it was, do you regtret it or would you do it again....stuff like that! |
| I was very disappointed. I remember thinking is this what sex is like? Yeah I went totally limp and didn't even finish. So I try it again the next night, and I was turned gay. LOL (I love ignorant people) |
Worried about my first time gay experience.? Im 19 male bisexual
How painful will it be? If Im bottom? |
You might not be expecting someone like me to answer this question but, I am a bit of a trysexual and expert in most things sex-related.
I hope your lover is experienced, knows what he is doing and is patient. If he is, you will have a most amazing experience, if not the first time, very soon. Wisdom from Eastern cultures recognize the anus as more than just a dirty, unmentionable poop shoot. Their approach to sexuality incorporates this part of the body as one of the many ways to enjoy pleasure and not just for the "top" but also the bottom. The Karma Sutra refers to the recipient of anal sex to be in a state of kinetic bliss. Their sexual culture, literature and art is often reflective of this, referring to the anus as the rose bud...I'm not guyding.
And helping the rose bud open is an art an expert lover will be able to do with little discomfort. First...
Have a gentle, warm water enema
Your lover should now spend time massaging your twin mounds, relaxing you
While masturbating and kissing you, let your lover stimulate the opening slowly with fingers and tongue (rimming).
A water based lube that warms on contact will help further relax the area.
Slowly, your lover should insert a slender bu-TT PLUG while masturbating and kissing you
Learn to relax around it, accept it and surrender to the experience (this is why you need to do this with someone you love and trust)
Try a slightly larger bu-TT PLUG closer to his penis width, applying more lube as needed.
When you are ready, replace this with him (wearing a condom) and lots more lube. He should go slowly, stopping as soon as his head is in so you can adjust. Masturbating you slowly will help you.
Only when you are ready, let him go all the way in and begin to slowly thrust in and out.
And wow...you are having anal sex. There are numbing creams to ease the way but they may also lessen the pleasurable sensations as well.
If you are lying on your back, let him angle his thrusts up and hit your prostate. You will see fireworks!
Enjoy and play safe! |
Tell me about your first time gay or bisexual sexual experience.? I looking to have my first time, so tell me how it happened and how did you feel after wards? |
Embarassing. Definetly not amazing.
I left thinking...man, I need more practice! |
Is it ok for a gay guy to experience first time sex with a female lesbian? I would be eager to know because if its a straight girl i doubt that she will say yes. But if its your lesbian girl friend then she might say yes? Im not sure can someone tell me? |
to the above, it makes him bi-curious, not bisexual, he may find that it doesnt appeal to him.
now, i don't think there are any "rules" against it, but i'd be careful about having casual sex just like that, and bare in mind that as a lesbian, she's less likely to want sex with a male than a heterosexual woman would, your sexuality has no effect on this ( lesbian is a woman that isn't attracted to males, regardless of their sexuality, just as gay males aren't attracted to females, regardless of sexuality).
again, i dont think theres anythign wrong 'per se, but be careful about casual sex, and bare in mind that it's more likely she'll say no than yes. |
What was your first gay club experience like? I'm a bit nervous this saturday is the first time I'm ever going to a gay club and don't really know what to expect. I don't like to drink too much so what can I do to help with the nerves? What was your first gay club experience like? |
if it helps, don't think about yourself so much, and instead focus on everyone around you and the atmosphere of the club. just let yourself go! there's no need to be nervous.
i always had a great time when i went to the gay clubs, and, honestly, they're infinitely better! i used to go twice every weekend to go dancing and meet up with friends; the gay clubbing community is pretty small in south florida, so i found myself often surrounded by the same faces. |
First time gay experiences? I'm a gay man but never been with a guy before. I know all bout safe sex etc. But is oral sex safe? I want to try anal but very nervous about this. Will i rip down there, be sore or what. Please any advice. If you have nothing nice to say please don't answer this question. |
| You wont rip, but start slowly. Use lots of lube and have him use his fingers to relax you. It will hurt a bit at first, but not badly if you go slowly. It will really feel wonderful. The feeling if being penetrated and just the full feeling of him inside of you is impossible to describe, but very good. |
How to have my first gay experience? i'm straight but i'm really curious to have a gay experience. how hard would it be for me to get laid going to a gay bar? is there anything special i should do? should i tell him that it'd be my first time with a guy or not? anyone have any similar experiences or any advice? |
It would be really easy. Guys in general are easy. Also, sex with a "straight guy" is a common gay fantasy. Just go to a gay bar and say you are straight but interested in experimenting. Or post an add on a gay personal add saying this.
Oral should be fun. Anal can be painful if you aren't into it. If you go for anal, be sure to use lots of lube and a condom. (Dangerous without a condom, painful without lube).
Give blood before your first gay experience. (you aren't allowed to give blood if you had sex with a man in the last 5 years, and there is a shortage of blood donors). |